Let’s talk about perfection!
You and I are each made in a unique way, so why do we compare ourselves so much with others?
Wouldn’t it be nice to release the chains of perfectionism and start proudly telling ourselves I am perfectly, imperfect?
I had the most amazing experience to be a part of the BlogFest at the IDEA Fitness Convention in June. It could be so easy to compare and seek perfection in a fitness-type world; but instead there was a feeling of community instead. Yes, we all compare sometimes, but I found that comparison can be a positive thing, when we seek other’s for motivation, inspiration and education. While sometimes we think others have the “perfect” blog, body, business, life, etc. , guess what, they don’t!
So, it was encouraging to see the open-ness and authentic nature of the women, attendees and speakers share openly about their life & their business. Therefore, I left the convention feeling energized, motivated, inspired and encouraged that we all can learn from one another and realized how important it is to walk away from perfectionism. In addition, see below, some of my pictures from BlogFest/IDEA Fitness Convention of some of the most amazing ladies, living a perfection-free life.
Comparison and how its robs the joy of life!
Well, there is no better time than the present to release the perfectionism chains. So let’s start TODAY! You might be asking, how do I do that and why does everyone else seem to have everything “perfectly” figured out? Guess what, they do not and I promise you this; every woman feels this way and finds it difficult to not compare themselves to others who seem “perfect”, as I know I do sometimes too. My husband, Tom, has always laughed how woman check out other woman more than they ever check out men. Is he right or what?
Now is the time to stop comparing and empower ourselves to love the women we are and who we will become in the future! We have worked hard to get where we are in life and and yes we have experienced so much; maybe college, marriage, kids, divorce, health issues, grandkids, death of loved ones, etc. We all walk on a unique journey designed just for us; but we can also learn to walk along side one another for encouragement, inspiration, love, appreciation, respect and growth!
Christie’s open & honest talk about being perfectly, imperfect!
Now here is a little about me, Christie, and my perfectly, imperfect life! I shared some of this on Instagram and I love hearing all of your amazing comments and inspiration; so I welcome you to come follow along too! Also, the reason I share this on Instagram, is because we all know there is no perfect person, no matter what social media may portray sometimes. Therefore, I wanted to get authentically real and share more with you about me. And since I started opening up my life via my blog and social media; I have had some of you reach out to me and ask some personal questions.
Here are some of the most common questions that I get asked:
- Do I workout everyday? No! I do enjoy my workouts, but I also love my rest days too!
- Do I think of excuses on some days not to workout? Why yes, I am human! Like it’s raining and I would rather stay in bed! I live in Arizona so luckily I can’t use this one too many times.
- Do I have cellulite? Of course I do! And guess what 90-95% of woman do. We can’t change that, so learn to embrace our bodies. Here is an article on celebrities and quotes about their own cellulite.
- Is my skin loose, especially on my abs? Yes! I am 54 years old, so I have told myself (sometimes I do need to repeat this) how I am proud that my tummy was stretched out to hold my two babies.
- Do I eat healthy all the time? Heck no! Hello pizza, wine & mexican food.
- Am I too old to get pimples? Nope! A pimple and wrinkles at the same time . . . hmmm, what’s that about?
How you can stop trying to live the “life of perfection” and just live?
While we both know we need to step away from trying to live or find perfection in our lives, it is time to be real. Or shall I saw authentic? So what’s on your list of imperfections that you can start embracing and not hiding? I am here to remind you that we all have days of feeling insecure, unmotivated or just too critical of ourselves. That is why I am here to encourage you to stop the comparison and focus on just being you!
Most of all, let’s concentrate on important priorities. One of mine is to take care of my body and try to keep it healthy and strong; but also remember to forgive myself too. Seriously, don’t you feel mentally and physically better when you take care of yourself too? Remember, don’t look to compare or perfection, seek health + wellness for you. My motto: is to live a balanced life, filled with joy where I promise to take care of my body, mind & soul; yet don’t forget to offer forgiveness to myself when I don’t always achieve my goals. Life is full of tomorrow’s and so my perfectly, imperfect life will continue on, so why not have the right attitude to go with it!
Christie’s Highlights at IDEA/BlogFest Convention: my place of encouraging, inspiring, “imperfect” women.
🔆”Comparison is the thief of joy!” – Heidi Powell (BlogFest speaker: she’s an amazing, beautiful inspiring women inside and out)
🔆”Strive for excellence, not perfection. Strive for passion, not perfection. Strive for reflection, not perfection.” – Petra Kolber (BlogFest speaker: she’s so real, authentic and a wonderful role model)
🔆“When you hang with your tribe, the enthusiasm becomes contagious!”: the FitApproach Board (a.k.a my new “daughters”) & SweatPink Tribe: I just love their sense of adventure, contagiously fun personalities while incorporating a true sense of community!
🔆“Wearing something that reflects who you are, how you feel, and what you value most; something you can put on in the morning & confidently wear all day!”: As a PrAna FitPro Brand Ambassador: I am so thankful to be associated & clothed in their awesome fitness, travel & adventure clothing.
And as always, if you are looking for follow-along workouts, healthy recipes and/or motivation to living your balanced (“imperfect life”), please visit my blog any time. Let me help you achieve your fitness, health & wellness goals; but as always never looking for perfection!
Christie, “your friend & personal trainer to help you Get Fit, Stay Fit & Love Yourself ”
Great post!!!
Thank you dear !!!
this is good but you know in my eye you are Perfect!!!!
Tee Hee only something a mom could say . . . love you